The Abbey Church and the Narragansett Bay
In the first reading today the author of the book of Sirach says: “One's speech discloses the bent of one's mind. Praise no one before he speaks, for it is then that people are tested.” It used to be that people in the business and professional world were proud to say, “My word is my bond.” Once your word was given on a deal, it was considered binding. A transaction worth millions of dollars could be completed by a few words or the shake of a hand. You didn’t need a signature or a written contract. Today, unfortunately, someone’s word is not usually trusted as binding or even reliable.
There is a real shortage of personal integrity. Integrity is one of the characteristics we should always want to carry with us in this life; it’s certainly one of the criteria on which God will call us to account. Integrity means wholeness, being complete and not divided in any way – physically, spiritually, or esthetically. Integrity does literally mean Holiness: being complete as God made us and intended us to be, morally healthy and saved. Sirach says that people’s faults appear when they speak, especially when they speak and aren’t considering their words. We often hide behind masks – but our conversation reveals our inner thoughts no matter how careful we are to hide them. So, St Benedict in his Rule quotes the book of Proverbs: In a flood of words you will not avoid sin, and: The tongue holds the key to life and death. In fact he says that there are times when even good words are to be left unsaid. Speech is a means of discerning the inner character of a person, because what comes out in speech uncovers what’s in our heart. And the first reading today focuses on the last line, saying that what a person says paints a true picture of that person.